Ending a relationship is the most insanely complicated experience I can ever imagine.  I work in a law office and there are an abundance of rules and regulations and codes and laws to weave through and yet it is still less complicated than finding your way through the end of a long-term relationship.  Seriously.  This is a bullshit.
First things first.  Janie and I are doing really well, all things considered.  We’re broken and sad and lost but managing to find our way through to something good.  We’re getting along.  We’re …

I’m on a tear, people.  I’m deleting the shit out of every superfluous thing in my life.  Facebook (temporarily), Anonymous blogs (OH, YOU DIDN’T KNOW?  HAHAHA…well, too bad.  DELETED!), furniture, emails, photos, Tumblr blogs, therapy! cats!, Anonymous twitter accounts (OH, YOU DIDN’T KNOW?  HAHAHA…well, too bad.  DELETED!), text messages, music and people I don’t like.  Are you one of them?  MAYBE (probably not)!
I’ve contemplated deleting this blog.  Over and over and over and over…and over.  Not today, though.  No.  I’m going to take some time to get my head on …

( Thanks, Jennifer :* )

Back in early March I wrote a post called Advanced Self-Loathing on which many people commented such beautiful and kind things that I was overwhelmed.  It started in me a profound change and I spent many months in a process of uncovering parts of myself that I either didn’t know existed, or that didn’t exist until I let them or they were given to me.  I don’t really know and ultimately it doesn’t really matter because that isn’t the point in all of this.
I don’t really know the point right …